read this quickly, because this is off topic and will be deleted... What I dislike is the attitude of closed-mindedness, refusal to accept or respect other's hard-earned wisdom, refusal to try to learn instead of teach, rush to sell-ie putting the cart before the horse, demanding to be spoon-fed answers, etc. I view it as a teacher/student r'ship. I would never disrespect my teacher. Because I may have graduated grade school in the candle-making world only means that there are still college-level teachers above me. I don't come here spouting that I know a lot, but I've been doing this a while, and have tested a lot of things. But, MOST IMPORTANTLY, I realize that there are many people here who know a lot more than I know. I respect them, and expect others to do the same. Just as I deserve respect for what I've learned. I call 'bullshit' when I see it, and respect others who call me on mine. What I don't understand is why some think it's alright to say something inappropriate to me simply because they think I've said something inappropriate. You ask me to not respond, you say mean things to me... and justify it... how?